The book, Celebrating Me by Colleen Wint: If you read
my blog, you will know that I talk about our stories celebrating our children,
bringing to our children a celebration of their lives, validating our way of life. Well this
post is about another type of celebration, the celebration of what happens as girls
begin the changes that go towards becoming women. This is a story of four friends in primary school, and one
has her first period, which throws them into a spin. How they find out, what
they do about it, is all part of the story. An older sister plays her part by explaining
(and there are illustrations to show this) what happens inside a girl’s body
and why. I must commend this writer, Colleen Wint, for thinking to do this story about a very sensitive subject. I remember Judy Blume’s “Are You There, God? It’s Me, Margaret,”
the first book, to my knowledge, to mention periods in literature for children.
Isn’t it interesting
that for something that will be such a significant part of a woman’s life, this topic is seldom, if ever,
touched on in literature. Well, of course,
that’s because it’s a very private thing, and information is passed down
privately from one woman to another. But what if no one tells the young girl, or is astute or knowledgeable enough
to tell the truth, and not a mixture of truth and myth? Many of us adults may have forgotten the fright, the worry, and all the things you wanted to do with
which a period interfered, like being on summer holidays by the sea, with all the other
children swimming except you. So I commend the author for her empathy for our
young girls, for her remembering. I commend her for her wisdom in realizing
that such a book could be written in story form, with endearing young heroines
to share their adventure of life with our readers. Societies can be quite conservative, and ours is no exception. However, as
a society, we are beginning to have the essential conversations about our
children, especially our girls, in the media, in our various agencies and
organizations. Consequently, perhaps this is an ideal time for this book to come
out. It can then be a part of the conversation. Naturally, we would expect that
parents/guardians would read the book before giving it to their girls ( just as my mother read the book she gave me, and I read the book I gave my girls), and be mindful that their
children may have questions and be ready to answer them.
Celebrating
Me has delightful illustrations by Rachel Wade Moss, which capture the joy (and
concern) of little girls on the brink of being big girls.
Most of all,
I like that this book is about us. We too can have books about important female
development. We don’t have to read it in a foreign book. We are important enough to learn about celebrating ourselves as girls and women in our own
books. A seemingly subtle but very significant difference. They are our lives,
after all.
I was unable
to attend the launch, but attended a ‘meet and talk’ with the author event at
Bookophilia on May 16. The audience was essentially made up of girls (and a few
boys) with mothers/parents. Ms. Wint did a very interesting activity with the
children, which highlighted the importance of accurate communication. She told
the young people present that her father, Arthur Wint, was the first Jamaican
runner to get a gold medal at the Olympics. I loved that! What a legacy! I so believe
that our children should know our ‘near’ history, and know that we have a long
history of achievement. The young audience enjoyed the interactive participation.
Note to those of us and self, whose launches focus on the gatekeepers mainly. Maybe
meet and greet is also a good idea. I note also, that Ms. Wint will be at Bookophilia
again this Thursday, June 11.
Photo of Colleen Wint and me at Bookophilia
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